self-soothing

  1. Validation – it’s ok that I hurt and want to feel better
  2. Reassurance – I can handle this pain, even though it hurts and I don’t like it
  3. Perspective taking: I’ve had bad days like this before, and my record of making it through them is 100%. I can also remember my better days, and know I’m not always hurting this much
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